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孩子先独立做事才有毅力 父母包办伢没意志力
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孩子先独立做事才有毅力 父母包办伢没意志力


作者:admin    文章来源:武汉晨报    点击数:    更新时间:2010-12-10
   “今天的电视很好看,作业明天再写好不好?”孩子一撒娇,许多家长就没辙。心理教育专家表示,培养孩子的意志力,关键在于培养其独立性以及完成目标的坚定性和果断性。

    ZUORIXIAWU2SHIZHI4SHI,CHENBAOYUSHIJIAOKEYUANLIANBANDE“JIAZHANGREXIAN”DI69QIKAITONG,SHIJIAOKEYUANQINGSHAONIANXINLIFUDAOZHONGXINZHURENZHANGHANQIANGJIU“RUHEPEIYANGHAIZIDEYIZHILI”YUJIAZHANGJINXINGLEJIAOLIU。

    ZHANGHANQIANGBIAOSHI,XIANDAISHEHUIFUZADUOBIAN,JIAZHANGWANGWANGYINPAHAIZICHIKUI,BAOBANTADEXUEXISHENGHUO。ZHEIRANGHAIZISHIQULEZIWOWANCHENGMUBIAODEDONGLI,JISHIDADAOYUDINGMUBIAO,YETIHUIBUDAOCHENGGONGDEXIYUE。DENGHAIZITASHANGSHEHUIHOU,MIANDUIWENTIJIUHUIBUZHISUOCUO,MEIYOUJIEJUEWENTIDESHIJINENGLI。

    ZHANGHANQIANGSHUO,JIAZHANGYAOGENJUHAIZIDEBUTONGNIANLINGTEDIAN,YOUZHENDUIXINGDIPEIYANGQIYIZHIPINZHI。SHANGXIAOXUEDEHAIZI,ZUIHAOSHIXIANTICHUYAOQIU,HAIZIWANCHENGHOUYAOYUYIJIJIBIAOYANG,TIGAOHAIZIDEJIJIXING。CHUZHONGDEHAIZIYAORANGQIMINGQUEMUBIAO,YOUXIEHAIZIYANXUE,JIUSHIBUNENGMINGQUEZIJIMEITIANYAOGANSHENME,ZHEISHIJIAZHANGYAOJIHAIZIZHIDINGJIHUA,DUCUQIWANCHENG,ZAIQIZHONGFAXIANHAIZIDEQUEDIANBINGBANGTAKEFU。HAIZIZHIYOUMINGBAILEZIJIXIANGDADAODEMUBIAO,CAINENGYOUXIAODITUIDONGXINGWEI。

    学英语没毅力

    YIWEIMAMA:NVERSHANGCHUYI,DUIYINGYUBUGANXINGQU,BUYUANDUHEBEI。ZHEICIQIZHONGKAOSHIYINGYUMEIJIGE,KAOWANHOUTAJIZIJIDINGMUBIAOWEI85FEN。DANZUIJINKANTAHAOXIANGHAISHIBUJIJI,ZENMEBAN?

    ZHANGHANQIANG:SHOUXIANYAOMINGQUEHAIZIZIJIDUIYINGYUDEMUBIAOYAOQIU,TADING85FENKENENGZHISHIXIANGMAMAJIAOCHA,SHIZIJIXINLISHUFUDIAN。JIAZHANGKEZHUDONGZHAONVERTANTAN,SHUOMINGMAMASHIXIANGBANGZHUTA。BAQIMOYINGYUDEMUBIAODINGWEIJIGE,HUIGENGFUHETADESHIJIQINGKUANG。DENGTADADAOZHEIGEMUBIAOHOU,ZAIZHIDINGGENGGAOMUBIAO,XUNXUJIANJIN。

    JIAZHANGHENVERDACHENGYIZHIYIJIANHOU,YINGTISHITAANSHIWANCHENGZIJIDEMUBIAOYAOQIU,KERANGTAXIEXIAMUBIAOHEJIHUA,RANHOUGONGTONGQIANMING,FANGZAISHUZHUOSHANG。DUINVERXINGWEIDEYAOQIUYAOJUTI,BIRUMEITIANGUIDINGDUDUOZHANGSHIJIANYINGYUKEWEN。

    学前如何培养意志力

    YIWEIMAMA:NVER5SUIDUO,ZHENGZAIDUITAJINXINGXUEQIANJIAOYU。XIANGJIAOTADIANJIANDANSUANSHU,KETAJINGBUXIALAI。QINGWENZENYANGCONGXIANZAIQIPEIYANGHAIZIDEYIZHILI?

    ZHANGHANQIANG:HAIZIDEMUBIAOYUCHENGRENDEBIAOZHUNBUTONG。JIAZHANGYAORANGHAIZIMINGBAI,MEITIANYINGGANSHENME,RUCANJIABINGWANCHENGYOUERYUANDEHUODONG、FENCHUANGSHUIDENG,ZHEISHIWEIPEIYANGHAIZIDEDULIXING。HAIKERANGHAIZIWANYIXIEYIGERENDEYOUXI。HAIZIMEIXUEXI15FENZHONG,JIAZHANGKEYUTAWAN40FENZHONG。JIAZHANGYAORANGHAIZIMINGBAI,TADEXUEXINENGJIFUMUDAILAIKUAILE。

    大三女儿像个伢

    YIWEIBABA:NVERDASANLE,ZONGXIANGGEMEIZHANGDADEHAIZI,ZUOSHIMEIYOUMINGQUEMUBIAO,ZONGRENWEIYOUSHENMESHIWOMENKENDINGBUHUIXIUSHOUPANGGUAN。ZENYANGCAINENGPEIYANGTADULICHUSHIDENENGLI?

    ZHANGHANQIANG:HAIZIYIZHANGDACHENGREN,SUIZHEZISHENFAZHANHESHEHUIYAOQIU,TAHUIKAOLVZISHENDESHENGCUNFAZHANWENTI。JIAZHANGYAORANGNVERMINGBAI,FUMUYIMEIYOUJIXUFUYANGTADEYIWU,BIYEHOUYIQIESHIDOUYINGYOUZIJIFUDAN。

    JIAZHANGYAOHENVERGOUTONG,LEJIETADEZHIYEMUBIAOHERENSHENGMUBIAO,RANHOUTICHUYIJIAN。HAIZIDEYIZHILIPEIYANGSHIBANQIYISHENGDE,JIAZHANGYINGCONGXIAOPEIYANGHAIZIDULIDERENGE。

    不同阶段方法有别

    XIAOXUESHENG:CONGSHENGHUORUSHOU

    XIAOXUESHENGDEYIZHIDULIPINZHIJIAOCHA,WANGWANGRONGYISHOUTARENYIJIANZUOYOU,YINERBUGANJIANCHIZIJIDEXINGDONGFANGXIANG。SUIZHENIANLINGZENGZHANG,HAIZIZUOSHIJIANCHIDESHIJIANYENENGGENGJIU,BINGQIEZHEIZHONGJIANCHINENGLISUISHIJIANTUIYIFAZHANHENKUAI。

    JIAZHANGKEBANGHAIZIZHIDINGQIESHIKEXINGDEXINGDONGJIHUA,ZHIDAOHAIZIANYUDINGJIHUACAIQUSHIDANGCUOSHI。CONGSHENGHUOXIGUANRUSHOUPEIYANGYIZHIPINZHI。HAIYAOZHUYIPEIYANGHAIZIDEZIWOKONGZHIYUDIAOJIENENGLI,YOUYISHIDIWEIHAIZICHUANGSHEKEFUKUNNANDEQINGJING,DUANLIANYIZHIPINZHI。

    CHUZHONGSHENG:PEIYANGZIZHUXING

    CHUZHONGSHENGZUIDADETEDIANSHI:JUEXINDAYUXINGDONG,JIHUANANYICHIJIU。TAMENWANGWANGZAIKAOSHIBULIXIANGSHIDINGXIAMUBIAOJIHUA,XINGWEIYOUHENDAMANGMUXINGHECHONGDONGXING。YOUYUZHIDINGSHIMEIKAOLVSHIJINENGLI,WANGWANGYINDUOXINGHEZIZHILICHADAOZHILUOKONG。

    JIAZHANGYAOSHIHAIZIMINGQUEMUBIAO,PEIYANGQIZIZHUXUEXIXIGUAN。JIAQIANGDUIHAIZIDEMOLIAN,ZAISHIBAISHIYUHAIZIYIQIFENXIYUANYIN,WEICHENGGONGJILEIJINGYAN。RANGHAIZIZAIPINGSHIDESHENGHUOHEXUEXIZHONGXINGCHENGZHENGQUEDEZIWOPINGJIAHEJIJIDEZIWOXINGXIANG。

    GAOZHONGSHENG:ZUOHAOTONGMENGJUN

    GAOZHONGSHENGYINENGZIJUETICHUXINGWEIMUDEHEDONGJI,BINGYINEIZAIMUDEWEIZHU,JUEDINGXINGWEI,CONGERDADAOMUBIAO。

    JIAZHANGYAOCONGPEIYANGHAIZIYIZHIDEDULIHEZIJUEXINGCHUFA,YUHAIZIGOUTONG,YINDAOHAIZIMINGQUESHENGHUOHEXUEXIMUBIAO,BAOKUOSHENGXUELIXIANG、ZHIYELIXIANG、RENSHENGLIXIANG。JIAZHANGBUYAOYIWEIZHEIXIEYUXUEXIBUZHIJIEXIANGGUAN,JIUKEHUSHI,GENGBUNENGWUSHITAMENZAIZHEIFANGMIANDEKUNHUOYUMIMANG。

    家长应从培养孩子意志品质的坚持性出发,当他们实现目标的支持者而不是批评者,尤其不能因为他们没实现目标而嘲笑和伤害他们。家长要做好孩子的同盟军,培养他们的自制力和果断性,尽量避免制造干扰,鼓励他们自己作出决定。

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